Relationship & Sex Therapy in Chicago, IL for Individuals and Couples

 

Therapy services focused on improving your life, your relationships, and your sex life.

Online therapy for residents of Illinois and Michigan

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I help individuals and couples gain skills, knowledge, and confidence to improve sexual intimacy+ relationship problems.

When intimacy is a problem, talking about it may be the last thing you WANT to do.

Yet, sweeping things under the rug only works for so long—avoiding the problem doesn’t lead to change.

It’s hard to find answers and solutions when you’re feeling disappointed or resentful. Sexual problems leave many feeling frustrated, vulnerable, or alone, hesitant to ask for help.

You have this nagging feeling that you or your relationship could feel SO much better…

Easier. More connected. More satisfying.

But, how do you get there?

If you’re still reading, I’m guessing you’re very ready to learn how to improve your situation. You want help, communication tools, and guidance from a specialist. Another set of eyes on your relationship and unique concerns. A caring therapist who is the right fit for you, who gets it, and who can actually help you.

Christine Aiello, LMFT, CST

Relationship & Sex Therapist

Hi, I’m Christine. I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) in Chicago, IL.

I believe that sexual problems in relationships improve by talking about them AND acting on them. With the right skills and support.

Working with me in therapy, you’ll find guidance and a safe environment to discuss sensitive issues such as relationship conflict, sexual changes, low desire or interest, painful intercourse, and more. I have specialized training in sex therapy and relationship issues. We’ll work together to figure out what’s getting in the way of the relationship you want. The connection, communication, or thriving sex life you want.

Whether you start therapy alone or as a couple, I’ll help you work through common and complex sex-related concerns, relationship issues, and challenging life transitions.

Clients and colleagues have called me calm, thoughtful, and approachable. I balance gentleness with challenge—helping you to learn, build skills, and really do the work improve your relationships.

Reach out to me for an intro call to see if we’re a good fit, or click below to learn more about my work.

Relationship & Sex Therapy Services

Read more about available therapy services below.

Therapy Services


Individual Therapy

Things have been feeling “off” in your life or relationships and you’re not exactly sure why. Maybe you know the why… but you’re struggling to figure out what you need, how to do the next helpful thing, or communicate what you need to those around you. We’ll work together to explore what’s going on for you. I’ll support you in advocating for your needs and being kinder with yourself throughout the change process.

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Couples Therapy

No matter the relationship stage, couples therapy can help you to explore unhelpful patterns, identify strengths, and be more present in your relationship. This is an opportunity to learn new ways of interacting with your partner and face challenges more effectively. Communication issues, sexual concerns, feeling disconnected, and preparing for/coping with life transitions are some common times to seek support.

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Sex Therapy

Sex therapy is a specialized form of psychotherapy (talk therapy) with a focus on treating sexual concerns and helping you better understand your sexual health and relationships. Some common issues include: difficulty talking about sex or preferences, discrepancy in sexual desire, sexual dysfunctions, sexual pain, and changes in sexual relationships. Couples and individuals welcome; you don’t need to be in a relationship, nor sexually active, to be ready to learn and ask for support.

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Premarital Counseling

You’re looking to check the “premarital counseling” box, but you’re also ready to learn about yourself, your partner, and your relationship. Premarital counseling can help you to openly discuss relationship expectations and face decisions, joys, and struggles more effectively. Session to session, I’ll guide the conversation and ask you questions about important relationship topics to consider as you prepare for your wedding or next commitment.

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Relationships take work, but problems with sex and intimacy don’t have to be so difficult.

I’m here to help.